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I love living in Toms River, New Jersey. To me it’s the best place on Earth; it’s the place I’ve called home for twenty-one years, and my favorite place to be. There’s nothing better than being able to put my beach chair in the trunk of my car on the first day of summer, and driving down to the beach before schools let out and the tourists flock to their rented beach homes. Those first few weeks mean the world to me when it’s just my beach chair, the ocean, and me on 7th Avenue in Seaside Park, NJ. 

Four months ago all of that changed when everything I loved about Toms River and Seaside was put on the forefront of a devastating hurricane. As I sat safely in my college apartment I couldn’t help but feel guilty that I wasn’t home trying to help with relief efforts. All I could do was believe in my community and everything they were doing to help, and I couldn’t be more proud of the things that they did. That hurricane showed me how much New Jersey truly means to me, and all of the amazing people in it. In a time of pure desperation locals helped other locals, they put their needs behind them and worked to keep those around them in high spirits. 

A few weeks ago my mom and I took a drive down to Seaside Heights. My heart felt heavy as we drove down streets of debris, but at one point we came across a street where two neighbors were helping each other clean their homes. It was at that moment that I realized how important community was. I applauded the people on the news who were horrible situations but rather then dwelling on it they were out giving relief to others. The unsung heroes of the aftermath of the hurricane are the people that make up a community, the ones who help others not for recognition, but because that’s what people do when their a part of something. 

New Jersey has been called a lot of things, but what people don’t know is that behind our loud mouths and reckless driving, there is a big heart. Hurricane Sandy may have destroyed a part of my home, but it reinforced the love that all New Jerseyians have for each other, and what were willing to do for another person. I believe that there is no greater feeling then being a part of a community that strives to make sure everyone is okay. I’m proud of where I live and the people who surround me. I believe in them, and I believe in us as a community of people coming together and supporting each other through the bad times and the good. We’re all in this together, and together we will strive to make what has been broken, fixed once again. 

Elizabeth
2/6/2013 01:46:31 am

This is absolutely amazing and heart warming to read. I live right outside of Ocean City, NJ, and the feelings that you describe in the beginning are absolutely head on to how I live as well. My heart sank when you told how you felt sitting at home while Sandy rolled through. I hands down love this. Even if us New Jerseyians do have a bad rap, Sandy is something that will forever bring us together.

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2/10/2013 03:14:49 am

This would definitely get published on the TIB website. It is such a compelling story and still relevant to so many. It would add depth to your story if you could capture a moment there that really illustrates the resolve of the people. Great line: New Jersey has been called a lot of things, but what people don’t know is that behind our loud mouths and reckless driving, there is a big heart.

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